How I am gonna Pick a girl
The art of how to pick up girls is
not difficult; all you need to do is get a good grip beneath their shoulders
and lift. I think even if it was this easy, most guys still wouldn’t be able to
do it because of all the mental blocks they have: “What if I lift her and she
thinks I’m ugly?
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What if I lift her and then I don’t
know where to take her? What if there’s another guy who just lifted her
recently and he’s a better lifter?” Now when you consider that most guys are
scared to death about talking to a strange woman, you have a recipe for disaster.
Fear not, there is hope. It is possible to learn how to attract and pick up
women even if you have never done it before. Sometimes it requires little
adjustments to your personality, sometimes big ones. Regardless, starting from
any skill level, you can go from “not being able to talk to a girl” to being
very successful with women in a short period of time by following some key
concepts. One of the best places to start is to hang out with men whom are
successful with women. By observation, osmosis and asking key questions, you
can improve your skill quite rapidly. If you don’t have the opportunity to hang
out with successful men, then the next best thing is to read books by men whom
are very successful with women. They will give you the theory, the techniques
and open your eyes to things that previously seemed impossible.
Concept 1 : When picking up a girl, you must be detached from
the outcome.
If you care about what the girl
thinks of you, you are destined to fail. Let’s face it, there are going to be
many girls that you are just not compatible with. Many of them just won’t live
up to your expectations and you won’t live up to many of theirs. You must get
over this and not care if you succeed or get rejected. If you care, then you
will do everything you can NOT to screw up, and consequently, this makes you
screw up.
Concept 2: When picking up a girl, YOU are choosing her.
When you talk to someone for the
first time, you must realize that there’s a reason that you are talking to
them. If you’re talking to a woman for the first time, it’s likely that she
already knows you’re trying to pick her up. Many guys have tried to pick her up
before and many will in the future. This does not mean that she decides if she
will accept your approach or not. When you go shopping for a car, you might
walk into a dealership, but does that mean that you will purchase the car? No
way! The only way you’re going purchase the car is if it’s a good investment
and the salesman is competent. The same applies to dating. When you go out and
you meet a girl, keep in mind that YOU won’t take her home unless you like her.
Concept 3: Be happy, enjoy what you do and she will too.
Many guys approach this as a
horrifying experience when in reality, it should really be a pleasurable one.
If your objective is to find out what kind of person this girl is and then make
her smile, then you’re likely to have many good and enjoyable interactions. If
you try to “win” by picking her up, you’re doomed for failure. Most of the
time, the best pick ups are when you aren’t even trying.
Concept 4: No immediate compliments!
What ever you do, do NOT compliment
her on her looks. Paying attention to detail is good, but as soon as you
mention her physical appearance, things start to turn ugly. If anything, you
can mention her clothing, accessories or anything out of the ordinary, but do
NOT mention her appearance. Even if she has the most beautiful eyes you’ve ever
seen, refrain from mentioning it. You can tell her later… much later.
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